“She exists, rejoices the life, fights, creates, loves everything. That’s why she’s always young. She doesn’t stick to the past. She has the power that she shakes off the things that make her life worse and she moves forward.”
Lili Zografou was considered very rough and sometimes ruthless. She was proud and incorruptible. She wasn’t afraid to express her opinions and thoughts even if she knew it will cause uproar. She stood for her ideas at all costs and at any time. She always did the things in her way, she never subordinates to others. She also knew how to enjoy every moment of her life although it wasn’t always easy. She didn’t care about the past, she lived the present moment and didn’t care about what other people think about her lifestyle.
She was fighting for Greek women and their place in society, she was concerned with problems of women in 20th century, she wanted to eliminate intolerence between the sexes but she stood against the feminist movement.
“I am passionate antifeminist because of one simple reason, because I am very happy I was born a woman.”
The literary critic Dimosthenis Kourtovik (Δημοσθένης Κούρτοβικ) described her as “a dark goddess Hecate of Greek literature”. The magazine publisher Mania Karaitidou (Μάνια Καραϊτίδου) said about her:
“She is person with much courage and like she proved she was very brave in her private life. (…) She is person that is terribly fetching and full of contradictions like all people, she is very intense and perhaps too extreme. And I think that Lili has to be the person that people terribly love and terribly hate as well.”
She never gave up smoking and alcohol although doctors forbade it. She wasn’t afraid of death, she considered it as something physiological that has to come like for example wedding or christening. She died in 1998 in Heraklion.
“She never took life seriously. She wasn’t prepared, as she stated, for oldness nor illness.”
My thesis is focused on the main motifs of her literary work – women, love and freedom, as well as on her life philosophy and in the next article I would like to write you more about it. Maybe it seems to you that it will be boring to read about women, love, freedom and her life philosophy but Lili Zografu was a person with very progressive thoughts and I think it’s worth reading about it. I don’t want to present you my analysis of her novels, I just want to share with you some interesting things that I learnt during my research about her. So I hope you will like it 🙂